Gauhar-E-Saadat (Islami Shariat Mein Darhi Ki Fazilat)

Gauhar-E-Saadat (Islami Shariat Mein Darhi Ki Fazilat

Gauhar-E-Saadat (Islami Shariat Mein Darhi Ki Fazilat)

Gauhar-E-Saadat (Islami Shariat Mein Darhi Ki Fazilat

FIRST EDITION: 21 Jamadi-Ul-Awwal 1437 (01 March 2016)

SECOND EDITION: 01 Rabi-Ul-Awwal 1438 (01 December 2016)

THIRD EDITION: 13 Muharram-Ul-Haram 1439 (04 October 2017)




Sexologist In Rawalpindi, Pakistan


Safer Sex Techniques

Safe Sex


There are many infections, which pass from one person to another by sexual activities. One of those, AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) leading by HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) is fatal. Other infections such as Gonorrhea or Chlamydia cause serious medical conditions, if untreated. Someone who is carrying the infections can transmit some other incurable infections like Genital Warts, Hepatitis and Herpes. Such infections can cause lifetime suffering.

During sexual activities, when body fluids such as semen and vaginal aqueous are passed from one person to another can cause significant ventures. Saliva does carry herpes, hepatitis and many infections, and transmits infections if brought in contact with mouth and mouth.

Indeed, someone suffering from any sexually transmitted disease; rapidly goes toward the death. Only Safe Sex Practices can prevent the spread of AIDS and other infections.




  • Always wear a new condom before any sex play begins. It protects effectively against all sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) except Syphilis.
  • Do not lubricate the penis before putting on a condom. It may come off during coitus.
  • If the condom tears during sexual intercourse, withdraw the penis immediately and put on a new condom.
  • Never use saliva as a lubricant.
  • Avoid large number of partners with whom you have sex.
  • Before beginning a sexual relationship, you and your partners should be checked for infection at any sexology clinic.
  • If you are infected with any sexually transmitted disease, stop having sex until a physician confirms that you are clear.
  • If you have any doubt about any sexually transmitted disease, consult to doctor.
  • Always avoid oral sex (Cunnilingus, Fellatio and Anilingus). 
  • Take care, when playing with toys, the HIV can be transmitted through cuts and scrapes.
  • Do not share toys, which have been inserted in another person.



The following practices can also help to protect against fatal diseases:

  • Urinating after coitus.
  • Washing the genitals thoroughly with warm water before and after sex.
  • Female partner should use standard contraceptive foams, creams and jellies.



Throughout life avoid extramarital sexual relationships. Always enjoy sexual life with the life partner.



Modus Operandi of Splendid Coitus


M & F Love

The coitus (Sexual Intercourse) is altogether pleasing activity than all other practices in the universe. So, everybody should have awareness about the charming manners of performance. Here, I suggest modus operandi of the splendid sexual intercourse. Absolutely, this will be very much effective for the couples for their enjoyable and successful sex lives.

Keep in the view that cleanliness is actual beauty. Partners should be more conscious about this. Their mouths, hair and bodies should be aromatic. Both partners may brush the teeth, take a bath, use nice perfumes, eat cardamom and aniseed or take any fine chewing gum.

Sexual arousal may occur suddenly as response of sexual attraction, or gradually after looking, touching, stroking, kissing and other foreplay activities. During sexual arousal, the man normally has an erection and woman’s vagina may become moist. Other physiological changes may occur, including flushing of the face and neck, the swelling and moistening of the mouth and erection of nipples in both partners.

The foreplay enhances sexual enjoyment. Foreplay means, activities that take place before penetration. The early stages of sexual activity may take place in any position, but by later stages, the couple would take usually the position in which penetration will occur. Foreplay varies very gradual and gentle to rapid and forceful.

It is significant that sexual partners should sensually undress each other. This act is wonderful which enhance the sexual appetite.

The man may smell, kiss, lick, suck, bite and explore the parts of the female partner’s body with the tongue and lips. This often occurs in sequence of contact with different parts of the body: hands, arms and armpits, lips, tongue, eyes, nose, forehead, ears, cheek, chin, neck, breasts, nipples, abdomen, feet, shin, thighs and buttocks. The woman should also lick and bite the breasts, lower abs and inner thighs of the man.

Manipulation of the partner’s genitals is of great importance. Pressing and rubbing the genitals against the partner’s genitals helps to prepare the genitals for penetration.

Couple may adopt any position that allows sexual intercourse to take place. The penis might be inserted gradually; just the tip at first, then progressively more of the penis is inserted in a series of small forward movements and half retreats. This spreads the vaginal lubricants over the penis, and enables the vagina to accommodate it easily.

During the sexual intercourse the man’s penis moves repeatedly in the woman’s vagina and out again. This is done by rhythmic hips movements, so the genital areas move apart and then together again. Both of the partners may move their hips, or one of them may move while the other stays still. Sometimes the range of movement is small, so the penis stays within the vagina for long duration. Sometimes large strokes, so the penis leaves the vagina completely, and then is thrust back deep inside it, hence more enjoyable.

In the intercourse, couple may use many kinds of movements; large and small, gentle and forceful, fast and slow. Either or both partners may take the initiative, and changes of movement may be gradual or unexpected fast. The couple may also choose to stop and then begin again several times. At the same time, they usually continue many of the actions of lovemaking that preceded intercourse: kissing, fondling and other activities. After the orgasms and ejaculation the couple may go to the completion with kisses and caresses.